What to do when they ditch you for the other Miscreants, and What to do when you ditch said Miscreants 💜

So we have had these moments. Note these are our friends doing said deed. They hang out with you and then as you are talking....They start saying they have appointments, a book club, a really, really long ass haircut. Therein you wonder....Why did they leave?

Or

It is your friend and you start awkwardly perspiring as their mouth is moving... You want to exit stage left as fast as possible. Since you can't stand their behaviors floating into the public space. Herein you think; Why are they like this?

So....I will set it straight for you my lovelies. Either way. You were ditched or you ditched them.

Yet why must we do such behaviors?

There is always a reason.

1. They have acted a certain way and it isn't tolerable. So run and run away

2. There is actually something they got to do and have to drop ship and company

3. The person is just being an ass and it's not a first line in the historical record. As in take the hint

What to do? Well you need to do something.

1. Ask them why. I know you can talk. Don't just leave it hanging like a dangling string

2. If it's you, resolve it. Figure out your bad behavior

3. Always acknowledge what has occurred is not one-sided. Don't be a cad and say you're right when you have no idea yet

4. Again, be a decent person. Don't blame them for ditching you or the other way. Find out why. Actually do the work. Face up and 'fess up if necessary. This is your friend. Unless you are looking for enemies. Then that is just one way.