Limits and Boundaries: Because People, they exist for a damned reason!
Okay people: I've heard it, and I have heard a lot of it.
Hell, more than enough. It keeps on happening.
Where people cross boundaries and limits that are already placed.
For the record. They are called boundaries for a reason.
It means stay off, back off, get off, gtfo, no, stop. It's not that hard to read into!
It is not only a command but a goddamned consent. Just because they say no; don't keep on doing it!
Actually stop.
I know we all aren't perfect human beings; but don't use that as an excuse to cross boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. Testing them is a different story. Also, don't use other reasons to excuse your behavior for doing it. Like "I am your partner/friend, I can do it." "I have so and so."
If someone says NO or STOP, actually listen.
If we all want to learn to hate each other; that's all you got to do. But then again; here we would be with no friends and lots of opposition on our own behavior model.
Listen to consent! They say yes? Enjoy! They say No? Back away. Don't keep doing it or you'll end up in a worse place then where you started!
Hell I may sound like a broken record in this entry; but if you are reading it. Get the message.
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