Earning Trust; Yes this topic

 Earning Trust; 

Yes this topic 💜

We all dread this topic because we are guilty or we just like abusing their interests or we distrust everything. 

We have all had this issue. No one cannot say they haven't. We have covered confidentiality..... Now, can we actually trust them? But can we trust them? Those are the two questions we ask most.

Now I will set it straight to you with terms:

Confidentiality: Information you hand out with care and consent 

Trust: Knowing the mfers can actually keep the information and not send it 500 directions or abuse it in more ways than one

So how do you go about earning this trust? 

There is more than one way. 

1. Ask Questions

2. Trust your gut. If you have information, and they're attempting to pry it out of you. Ask them why they are doing it. They're asking too many personal questions (Where you live. What you wear. What you do. Etc.)? Ask them why are they so interested when you've known each other for 5 min. Like for real, rude. NOYB None of your business damnit.

3. Don't go advertising everything about yourself god dammit. Are you a signpost or a human being? 

4. Know your boundaries. You know those wonderful things we have that says back off, No, denied, gtfo etc

5. Don't go begging for their information you cad. Let them tell you when they're ready to tell you. They are not your goddamn dictionary. 

6. Don't go abusing the information. They are your friends. Unless you're that dastardly and are looking for enemies and people to kill you. 

7. Don't be a liar. You want to keep friends, friends? Don't be a back stabber either. They are your friends not walking tools for you to use. 

8. Don't do stupid things that break trust. You want to keep it? Don't do criminal deeds. Take care of them. If they start doing shady things, run yourself.